On the contrary Emmy, your straightforward factual info was exactly what i was after! I have noted that OB's and Midwives are sometimes reluctant to go into a lot of detail about episiotomies and tearing, probably trying not to freak us preggos out, but honestly, the more info I know the more prepared i feel and calmer.

I know after reading almost three pages of birth stories that i am way more prepared and less nervous on what's to come.

Thanks for your candor.