A friend said to me after having her baby that she hated that scared feeling and it was because she could control just about everything else around her but when it came to this baby it just wasnt possible and i thought she had a good point.
And just a note on the different crys they have, my son actually used to cry the word hungy when he needed a bottle, so i would be walking back from shops to home with this little baby crying hungy. I am sure that he didnt know what the word was but it was damn spooky all the same.