Thanks girls, its only painful if I put any pressure on it.. was trying to see if it was an ingrown last night but nothing happened... so its a little sore today when I 'wipe' but it doesn't hurt if I dont touch it. and it obviously didnt hurt me before I found it because I never noticed it...

I will get the ob to check it out next week, bit embarrassed to bring it up, silly I know considering he will be seeing MUCH more when the birth happens!.... all these things you need to go through... its all worth it in the end of course