yes now after a 'talk' she had with my husband she came to me and asked what i wanted .... i again was in pain leaning on the back fence (that looks over the river/lake) and i blurted out in tears ... i want you to realise i dont necessarily need you to do anything except be a mum BUT that doesnt mean i want to have a life changing discussions with you. I went on and told her i need to stay within my self to stay in labour as this baby wants out BUT with all the stupid and silly questions i have been asked and then you get ****ty because im not answering and therefore whammo contractions end and im 5 steps back. I told her i want you here to just be here i dont want to worry about TAKING the f....n rubbish out (yes she told me to take the rubbish out to the bin)or how much milk we have or havent or any other grocery topic, i dont want to discuss where my new bubs clothes go and i dont appreciate you getting ****ting with me because i havent agreed with you . This is my baby my labour my house and my household ... i would really appreciate if you could stop the nonsense and let me be! She kept saying well would u like me to go home ? I didnt answer her at all as i know she wanted me to say yes mum go home ... and if i did do that again i would be the worst daughter in the world .
WTF why i have to say all that at all is beyond me ....
yayyyyyy congrats!!!!! how exciting i was thinking about u the other day thinking i wonder wats happened if anything lol!!!
hun, i have no word of encouragement or wisdom as it seems everyone has beaten me to it lol.. just try and relax a little when ever u have the chance!!! its hard n the worst time to even think that u could think about urself but if u dont then no one else will till u do have that full on "blue"..
i hope everything gets better n u start recieving alot more support xoxo
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I hope she snaps out of it, and reaslises this is your time, and helping in the way you want to be helped is the way to go!!
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