yes now after a 'talk' she had with my husband she came to me and asked what i wanted .... i again was in pain leaning on the back fence (that looks over the river/lake) and i blurted out in tears ... i want you to realise i dont necessarily need you to do anything except be a mum BUT that doesnt mean i want to have a life changing discussions with you. I went on and told her i need to stay within my self to stay in labour as this baby wants out BUT with all the stupid and silly questions i have been asked and then you get ****ty because im not answering and therefore whammo contractions end and im 5 steps back. I told her i want you here to just be here i dont want to worry about TAKING the f....n rubbish out (yes she told me to take the rubbish out to the bin)or how much milk we have or havent or any other grocery topic, i dont want to discuss where my new bubs clothes go and i dont appreciate you getting ****ting with me because i havent agreed with you . This is my baby my labour my house and my household ... i would really appreciate if you could stop the nonsense and let me be! She kept saying well would u like me to go home ? I didnt answer her at all as i know she wanted me to say yes mum go home ... and if i did do that again i would be the worst daughter in the world .

WTF why i have to say all that at all is beyond me ....

Now she is a changed women .... for now