Jessica you sound a lot like me in my first pregnancy - I stressed a lot and wanted to control everything. But the thing is that unfortunately a lot is out of our control and we have to just run with what happens. I still want to control what is happening with this pregnancy and labour, but I am also learning to accept what ever is happening and to only worry about the things I can control. The best advise has already been given above in regards to relaxing, breathing and staying at home. Educate yourself and BB is a great place to get info.

Good luck!