Hey all, I got an emergency 5 second consult with a dr to have a squish around. I'm on bedrest, not allowed to stimulate the uterus (sex, caffiene etc etc), no heavy lifting etc my blood pressure was high last night and is really low today so I'm not meant to drive and prefer me not to be by myself incase I pass out etc (Dad2be works all day though so meh I'll try to avoid the bathroom and kitchen benchtops).

They said I don't appear to be in early labor but if my pains become rythmic then I call for the hospital straight away, feels like if I sneeze I need to call the hospital the amount of stuff they were rattling off... if I start to go into labor I have to go on steroids or something to try and prevent it for at least 3 more weeks after that they dont care when bubs wants out..

They think it's because Ryan insists on laying sideways rather than up or down and is putting pressure on where I bled from before (but wouldnt do a u/s to confirm it didn't have time) at 8 weeks pregnant and that until he turns they think I may bleed on and off a bit if that is the problem.

There are so many boxes of stuff to unpack though they're making me twitchy I want it all put away before Ryan arrives but don't want to hurry Ryan's arrival along by trying to unpack before he gets here lol is a catch 22..

I guess worse things could of happened I just wish he along far enough to come out and be safe in my arms where I can see him instead of not knowing..