Hi Meg.. I can't help with the still birth question, although what Natalie said sounds right. As for the spontaneous birthing process, Oskar was 4 days over and it all started happening without me even realising, lol. Try to keep a positive mind and visualise what your bub looks like and see the baby moving down the birth canal in the correct position and being born. You need to get comfy and close your eyes and relax and really focus. It helped me that's for sure. Oh... almost forgot.. he was a very successful VBAC. I hope you meet your bubs soon!!!