It's my body and my baby so why does everyone have to judge my decision?

Damn right it is your decision. I know it is hard to understand and really grates a nerve too I guess. People judge because it is what they would not do......without giving any consideration to you/your feelings.

On a diff topic, my MIL makes snide remarks etc about my son going to preschool (she is anti-preschool) and about him doing swimming lessons (she thinks he will drown). I will never gain her support because I am doing what she does not like/believe in.

Also, my GF of mine had internals and said it felt pleasant as she was having pre-labour pains etc from 38 weeks also (she then went a week over!)...i had internals as part of a normal labour and hated it.......some obgyns are gentle and some not I guess!

Hang in there hun!

Take care,
xxxx