It can be a period of adjustment planned or unplanned. I have had some anxiety myself and this baby was planned......as i have a dd and she will be 3 when the baby is born. Im wondering how i will cope myself and how difficult it is going to be etc and i had post natal with my dd and had trouble feeding and trouble with her sleeping and had quiet a rough time...so i know how daunting it can be....and every situation and every person is different....

Maybe some counseling might help? or maybe some books on the subject.

I think once you have you're baby and you adjust and settle things will be different for you hopefully and you will feel better.