DH went to Hawaii with mates for a friends wedding when I was 33 weeks preg with DS2, He was away for 10 days, DS1 was not walking and was 16 months old but I let him go as it was important to him. I also have no family near by to help.

I had no issue with him going at all I was just upset I couldnt go as well as I was not comfortable with idea of flying and my OB said no as well!