My DH and I would try to make it so we could both go, if not, then he probably wouldn't go. At 35 weeks during my pregnancy there was no way he would have left me and the small naked boy who lived in my belly, he was practically stopping traffic for me if I needed to cross the road (that actually got irritating). But we're both like that, neither of us like being away from the other for any significant amount of time (longest is 2 weeks)

For all you women who would just ''get on with it'' I applaud you, and I think it's brilliant that the OP has a range of experiences provided. But oof, I would be so sad