Oh how i can relate to you all!

I am keeping sane by just laughing and walking around like a zombie - i am trying to pretend i am on some reality tv show (Big Brother)....

I can say this though:

Dh says i will do this i will do that but does it happen - NOOOOOO!!! In the end i gave up and just organised someone else to do it for me. Yes he will go off as he is a believer that you don't pay no-one to do your work for you ie - house clean etc etc. Shhhh don't tell but i got a cleaner in took her 3.5hrs cost $63.00 bucks and i felt great! It was a special treat for me and i tell you it lifted my spirits and i got some rest thats for sure. I have never in my life got someone else to clean the house but this time i am glad i did. He still thinks i did it. Hee hee hee!

Today i am having my car cleaned $40.00 he wanted me to cancel it but no way i am getting it done i have asked for my car to be cleaned for months now! Another special treat for me!

We all deserve some time off at least and especially when we have other children, babies/toddlers, dogs,cats the bird iukwim.

So girls use your GIRLPOWER and just get someone else to do it for you. You will feel revitalised and great once you do it!

They say (books, drs, obs) we have to relax an take it easy all the time -

If all else fails get your Ob or Gp to write a note/medical certificate to say you can't do alot of hard work and have to rest and show him so he gets the message and then go for your life in booking people wether it be friends, family or the professionals go for it!

Just one last thing at least we are all in the same boat and i can now think to myself well i'm not the only one out there. Maybe we need a Big Brother Pregnancy house that we can all relocate too until we go into labour?

Jen