Thanks Olive, DS1 is quite outgoing but i still feel it's been great for him to have that extra year at home, DS2 is a little more timid and is about to begin 3yr old kinder and will turn 4 in March and i definately feel that's worked out best for him but i'm just a little stuck with DD. Late last year i put in a form for her to go into 3yr old in 2015 but i'm now wondering if i should make it 2014, if i do and decide that she's not ready i could get her to do it again maybe!?

I hope we've helped you with your hesitations Beatrix, i didn't mean to hijack in any way