I have my reasons & I do what I feel is best for MY kids
That was my point - everyone has their reasons and do what they feel best for their children, of course, that's natural (or it should be). Just as those mentioned in the study deemed as racist for choosing the type of schooling to 'avoid' other cultures....I was trying to make the observation that we all make choices based on specific reasons - how those choices are judged by others can label us a certain way. Whether that label is fair or truthful is another matter.