Hi Naomi,

All of the concearns you are having are very normal and I am sure your mum has similar feelings but knows she can not stop this next step in growing up Gemma will be fine I am sure of that I think that keeping a very close relationship with her school might help put your mind at ease.

It may also help if you sit down with Gemma and have a talk with her about the things you are worried about although it might be a little difficult you know how to chat with her and maybe it will help her to understand things a little more.

I hope you get some better advice I really don't know what else to say about the matter maybe try and post this in the BOO HOO room and ask for some advice