Thank you all for your advice. I've calmed down now and not so pee'd about it. DD is going for the relay, 800m and LJ so definately focusing on that. She is home now and as happy as larry so its obviously not the concern for her as it was to me. I guess because I saw what they were doing right under my nose that was what pee'd me off and then that I didn't have the heart to say anything about it. I guess I'm pis-ed of with myself more then anything.

The whole school thing is a big concern. The thing is the area we live in (rural so few options) the state school is not an option. Very well known for drugs even within the primary school and DD is not a well behaved girl herself. Where there is trouble I can surely find her in the middle of it. Atleast where she is it rules out alot of children that would have really bad influence on her. This wouldn't be a concern if DD didn't struggle so much herself. DD has a very good friend where she is and I have suggested in the past she moves but she doesn't want to unless then friend comes to. Now I'm concerned they might be trying to get rid of her and when it comes to high school there are only limited places and not every child at the primary school will get a place for secondary. I guess the main thing at the moment is DD is happy. I think she might be to young to see what happened. It makes me wonder what else might be going on. Gee the more I think about it the more I wonder if I should change her school.

Clover this year DD has not received a single award yet. Last year she got 3 behaviour awards which is not much seeing as if you get 5 you get a bronze award, 10 silver and 25 Gold. I guess thats another reason this whole thing sucks even more so as her athletics is the one thing where her behavioural problems doesn't affect her performance.