I'm sorry, but I would honestly change schools, or put in a complaint to the Ed Dept. That is unbelievable. I'm glad my DD is at a small school where they check what the kids have for lunch every day. No matter the age. If my DD walks out without her $2 for lunch, she still gets her nuggets, they just send home an account every 6 months. Any probs & they ring me straight up. If they can't get me they'll ring MIL, just around the corner & she'll sort it out. I think this is bullying & wouldn't put up with it. There are only 12 kids & 1 that is often sent with stuff she doesn't eat, but they still make sure she doesn't go hungry.