it doesnt seem right.

I think whats worse is that the girlfriend posted that comment on facebook! What a tragic thing to read about yourself. Teenagers want nothing more then to be accepted...imagine how damaging that comment must be for her self esteem. Thats a form of emotional abuse right there...and bullying.

Why is your neice not liviing with her birth mother? I certainly wouldnt want her in a place where she is not wanted.