wow it must be hard for your SD, having parents in different countries! my friend did the same thing moving back and forth between parents (melb-Rye-Melb-Rye)
i agree she may need to think through her choice of where she decides to live, but at 14.. thats a hard thing to do!
sorry im no help, but i just wanted to say good on you for getting through all this, your SD is lucky to have an understanding & welcoming Step-mum!
good luck with everything!!
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When my parents separated I was 12yo and Mum took my sis and I over to Western Australia.... my Dad remained in NSW. We went over with the new boyfriend. My homelife was shocking to say the least. I kind of toyed with moving back to NSW but soon my dad remarried and that option kinda closed. You are such a wonderful stepmum! What a fortunate girl to have your caring and support. In retrospect I probably should have moved back with my father as the boyfriend was abusive. I think your SD really needs to be careful. It is very common for mothers to sacrifice what's best for their children to please a prospective new manI'm not saying all women do this...
Have you heard any more news? If cheerleading is a priority then everything is probably ok in her world LOL
My own DD is 13yo... it is a very challenging age. It sounds like she managed to fit in with your family ok when she was over here? I'm sure that there will come a time when she might need a break from her mum... maybe during her school holidays? (July) with a bit of luck she might even be able to help you out a bit too.
Well done Fiona, on being a great stepmum
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