Wow Mildez I don't know how you handle that! Extremely full on and as a parent you just can't help but think that maybe its my fault that she is like this.

She tells me she lies so she doesn't get in trouble, yet she fails to realise that the lie gets her into more trouble the the original act. Half the time the original act is not even worth punishing but more of a I need to know who is responsible type thing.
Punishment in this house consists of being told off, lecture, possible loss of item or activity and time out.. and this doesn't phase her. She doesn't have electronic items to have taken away or anything along those lines, she is now so used to not be allowed to do things because I can not trust her that that punishment is losing effect. She doesn't have a currency as such that I could take from her to get her to realise its wrong and she also doesn't seem to care about anyone elses feelings in regards to the matter. At the moment her birthday is coming up and i am so fed up that I wish I had the balls to just let it pass by without celebrating it at all but just couldn't do that because she is just a child.