Well he did just go to the toilet. But he did hold on, with out a word, til I offered to take him.
I might have a talk to him. Let him know that the other doctor will need to do the same as the gp did today & see if that changes his mind.

I know he wet the bed (new lounge) at his dads house. What happened there ill never know, & he'll never tell me. And I don't usually bring things like that up with the kids, because I don't want them to remember things that they'd normally forget itms. And I don't like to sound like I'm questioning their fathers care (even though I do, in a huge way!)
He wasn't with the older kids, so can't talk to them either.