Have you started to nurture yourself more. Now your children are older, you would likely have a little more time to be able to do things for you. Take an hour out of the day and do something for yourself.

What about mummy daughter days. With both of your daughters and you. You could cook up a storm together, or go out for a 'coffee' with them, go on a girly date for dinner/movie, paint your nails and do your hair, watch girly movies at home....maybe let her and her sister take the lead and organise things and you go along with it all, so they can spoil you a little too.