So DS1 (who will be 13 in one month)

Chatting to this girl on FB. Asks me if he can walk up to her house. I said no.. get the usual why mum why not yada yada..

Then asks to go to the kid next door.. Was planning on watching a movie coming home at 9. Now I am not stupid. I checked his FB messages and planned to go next door and then head to her place for a bit. I decided not to let him know I knew what he was planning and reminded him to only go to T's house..

I promise mum.. Ok home at 9.. ok see ya mum

I waited 5 mins and went for a walk. They were no where to be seen. Waited another 10 minutes and yep catch him walking back home from this girls house. I am so damn angry and disappointed.

Then he has the nerve to ask me what did I do mum. I did nothing wrong I only went to the corner. and while I realize its only 2 streets away (approx a 5 min walk) it is not the blooming point, If I let him get away with this sort of stuff now then what will he do when he becomes less naive and even sneakier.. Its a scary scary thought

How on earth do I deal with this crap? He is in bed now and still saying he did nothing wrong and now wants to know if he is allowed out tomorrow..

I knew eventually we would have something like this happen but not at 12 yrs and 11 months.. and of course DH is on night shift so I don't have the extra parent here to help deal..

aarrgghh *vent over * really needed to get that out