thread: What do I do here?

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  1. #1
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    Mar 2007
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    I would do what n2l said. And also ask her how she thinks might be the best way to respond if her friends say anything negative about inviting the girl.

  2. #2
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    Dec 2010
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    This really is one of "those" moments, where your daughter can do something great and learn a good lesson. I think you should invite the girl. I know at 11 I would have struggled to understand but in the long run I know I would always want friends with continence problems over ones that would shun a party because I'd invited someone with continence problems.

    I hope it all goes well

  3. #3
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    Sep 2007
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    Well she made the decision herself to invite her. She knows the 3 girls she's closest to won't care & will be here no matter what. She's never made this girl feel left out or uncomfortable like the other kids do, but with peer pressure she does say the same *****y crap the others say when the girl isn't around.

    The girl wasn't at school today though, so hopefully she will be tomorrow. I'd hate her to feel left like she was left out on purpose!