Too true Ang... we try not to make her feel guilty about the money we spend on her education... but we do let it slip... has zero affect though. She needs to get a job though... many of her friends do. Fortunately we don't feel that we are wasting the money as she does have amazing social skills and confidence that we attribute to her schooling... she just needs to use that confidence in positive, not negative ways like she has done today.

They are home now... time for a more strict version of grounding!