Thanks ladies.

I have also questioned whether there's more to DD2 story and for staying home. 2 weeks ago she told me she was being teased as she couldn't count, I questioned what she meant by she was unable to count (in my view there were no issues). I was told that she can't count to 20 and everyone else could. I took the issue to her teacher. She was not aware of any teasing, but did tell me (and I'm peeved that nothing was said considering we are nearing the end of term 2), that she was struggling with counting and maths from start to finish.

Last night at parent teacher interviews, it was revealed just how much she is behind and struggling. I can't help but feel so guilty and sad for my baby girl. I had no idea it was this bad, she always appeared in control and knew what she was doing. Nothing has been mentioned until now.

I cried myself to sleep last night because I feel I've failed her, that I should have seen the problems earlier or been doing extra stuff regardless