Yeah that's a bit crap that they haven't been in touch before now.

How much time does the aide spend in the classroom? Is it worth talking with the teacher about getting more time?

Our council offers free tutoring for primary students at the local library, you could see if yours does the same?

It's good that you're being proactive about helping her move forwards. I'm sure it'll make a huge difference. I know with DD when I intentionally spent time with her on her words I saw massive improvements.

You can do it. School holidays soon - good chance for some intensive work with mum. Maybe?