Wow. I keep thinking about your situation, wondering what I would do in your place, and I really have no clue.
I'm so sorry you're going through this, it must be so awful for you.
Is there an ombudsmen you can talk to or some higher power?
Whether you move away or not, these kids need to be held accountable and not given more power by being allowed to think they ran you out of town IYKWIM.
I hope you can find a place where you all feel safe x