yes its hard to imagine being away from my kids for 7 days, but their father is heart broken at the idea of being away from them for 10 days, and only seeing them every fortnight.... how can i do that to him? that's why i'm considering the 50/50 option, i don't know what else to do.
to be honest you do get over it and after the first few weeks it becomes the norm .... and there are things called mobile phones that do everything