Thanks Divvy, will give her a call first thing Monday. Been trying to find a good family lawyer but no one I know has much experience with a situation like this.

As to ex, yup, both kids are his but the moment DS was born he was the gold child one of the main reasons why we split. As to 50/50, I never wanted it, but the mediation centre that we went too refused to let it to go to court and no joke, I was bullied into "accepting" 50/50 parenting and just had to "deal with it". I did however this time around report the original mediation centre, whom were investigated. This is why I dont want 50/50 anymore and I definitely can't send my boy to 2 different homes and schools at the same time. Right now at this moment he's woken up several times, excited to see daddy tomorrow but upset because it means he cant see us..