i really wish i had advice hun but i dont its somethig you have to work out my DS cries and cries when he sees hiss dad rock up but i have to put him in and stay happy and then he stops crying as soon as im not there may be your DD is picking up on ur unhappy vibes after XP goes..just try and be happy when XP comnes and sees her at least he had a turn around and DD is only 8 weeksold so you still having those firt time mummy "no one is taking my baby away" feelings just let things prgress! if ya ever need to talk im alway here take care!! congrats on a beautiful baby too! xox