Thanks girls...

Yep it is his toy but apparently any toys (including gifts!) DS has at his dads are his dads!!!

DS already hates going - we have him sobbing for a good 24hrs before he goes and he gets hysterical when XDH gets there to pick him up...

I wish SOMEONE ANYONE would slap his brain. DS is a good kid - always honest (even when he has done something wrong) and is a pretty incredible child...