all of the sudden i am out to steal everyone's man?!

[widdly]

thanks hun, i will, and no there was definately no crossing boundaries going on, i could hardly see the boundaries i was so far away!

[Inanna]

It's their stuff not yours honey. I'm glad you had fun though!

[Nettie]

It's their stuff not yours honey.

:yeahthat: Don't let their insecurities change your natural behaviour...

[widdly]

nettie, that is great advice, thanks

Yeah she is insecure for sure, luckily she is not part of my usual social circle

[Cherished]

That's really interesting! I have not experienced anything like that due to not being in that situation. Maybe all those female friends who are married are jealous that you are a strong independent woman now who is attractive! Yes YAY for you hon I have to say though that when I met my husband I grew apart from all of my single friends who were my best friends for almost 10 years. There wasn't any falling out so to speak and I wasn't threatened by any of them... we just weren't at the same place anymore. Maybe your female friends don't relate to you anymore, before you were married and they all knew where they stood? Ahhhhh, sigh's I don't know, woman are so strange sometimes. In your case it may be hard for her to see her man have such a great relationship with another woman (you) and to share a close bond with someone other her.

[MantaRay]

Hun, that's not fair

How interesting that she would think you wouldn't respect the sanctity of her marriage, but that if you were still married you'd respect the sanctity of yours. Really, I mean if you are after a married man (which I know you are not!!), then why would your own married status stop you? Hopefully she'll realise how silly she was when she's had some time to think about it.

[kelebek]

I agree it says more about them then it does about you. I also think some woman believe you need a man to be happy so if you don't have one then you must be after theirs

Take it as a compliment and don't take on anything else, you don't have to justify yourself to anyone else.

[Catastrophic]

O that sucks hun~ But like you said in a way a nice compliment :-)

I was accused of stealing My mums friend's husband when I was 17 - Just becuase I was young, single and we got along... It didn't get any better when he stuck up for me one night either "rolls eyes"

Don't stress too much hun, it's not your fault that she is insecure. You did nothing wrong xoxoxo

[isharathena]

I agree, she's just insecure.