Sorry you're going through this. I tried to get consent orders when DD was 7months. It was a long, painful and costly journey for me and I finally got something in writing when she was nearly 4.

Definitely start by seeking legal advice. I'm not sure if every state is the sane but we had to go to mediation first, and because that don't work we were able to go to court.

We wrote our own orders, which he contravened first weekend, went back for more and that's where it got hard.

Good luck and I hope it's an easy journey for you and Jett