Emma83

First i am going to say GODDLUCK and take care of yourself and your precious son as your first priority.
Secondly i have been through this and have just that it it is all over for me. Mine started when my DD was 6 weeks old and she has just turned 4yrs.

Info: I was told by my solicitor that the courts start at 50/50 shared care (divided time between 2 homes) unless you can prove that it is not IN THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD. The Best interest of the child would include age, how much help your ex has been in the home, his working hours and where you are both living in relation to each other. My trick i moved out of town before he could do anything, and while there are no orders it is the easiest thing to do. missymoo is right that he can take him and not bring him back as there are no orders in place and he is the father. You need to get yourself some legal advice straight away.

i will be back later have bib with pain in his belly