NO NO NO NO NO and NO you arent.

She is waay to little to be taken away overnight (imo). I know the visits are a bit infrequent but I spose its better than nothing . I think it may take a little longer to build up a relationship under these conditions, I'd press him to see her a little more (he has weekends doesnt he?).

If you can slowly build up the relationship with bubs, he will have more confidence and when its time for an overnight stay with dad, you will feel better about her going. There's NO HURRY on that one though....