Ok, my ex works strange hours so instead of me setting times and if he can't make it, too bad so sad i let him come and see our daughter whenever he can... the thing is though he's just not doing it...
in the last 31 days he's spent 7hrs 22mins with her, and most of the visits were 5-20mins. in my opinion he's not spending enough time with her to form a father daughter bond. i just don't know what else i can do...
one day he said he wanted to start taking her for days, but i'm not ready for her to be away from me and even if i was i don't think i'd want him taking her, only because in her whole life he's only changed her bum like 4 times and every time she cries he passes her back to me like she's diseased (sp?) so i don't think he's be capable (sp?) of having her for a day...
I just don't know what to do anymore... am i expecting too much?