help, if anyone is on here atm, please chat to me

[Lulu]

I still get sad 6 years later if I think about all the things we had to give up. But it doesn't last too long.

BUT, they can still be happy memories and I'm glad I have them all!

[widdly]

thanks guys x

Kim - thanks for the reassurance that I did the right thing, it is so easy to question myself.

Winter - your advice is great

Lulu - you're right, its ice to have good memories, I justy need to forget those for a while, especially at midnight!

mistree - nice to hear they do get better

still feeling pretty vulnerable today, but i will just busy myself with cleaning. XH is having Archie tomorrow for a few days, so it will be good for me to get a nice break and look after myself

[Frantelle]

Hugs...maybe when you start to feel vulnerable try remembering why you left.

Enjoy your you time can you spoil yourself in someway

[widdly]

thanks Kylie, I am spoiling myself by moving to a town with a warmer climate and lots of loving family. Shame I have to spend the rest of the week packing adn cleaning though LOL