What he had to say to me made me wild with anger and I no longer have any guilt over the break up what so ever. He is a selfish, lying, disrespectful d!ck with absolutely no balls.
He admitted that he has been completely ignoring our issues, hoping i would get over it and things would stay as they were. One word comes to ming atm, it starts with C and ends with T!!
Archie has been an angel since I completely ended it, so i am 100% that the right decision has been made for us
Thankyou all so much for helping me get to this point x
thats just awsome!!!!! i really hope u have inspired some other ladies to do the same thing! ur a legend and an awsome mummy for doing that! well done to you! i can just hear the spring in your voice!!
Hate to say it but that was the impression I got from your last lot of posts. I just wasnt going to assume on it. But well done on sticking up for yourself!
Wow, good for you!
I would never actively suggest someone walk away (specially since I don't know you irl) but I have to say I'm so proud of you for doing what you needed to do and for having the courage of your convictions, you're setting the best possible example for Archie just by not accepting less than you deserve.
Massive hugs girl, you should be proud of yourself and he deserves a big smack!
One thing I have learnt with a man is when they say "I was just thinking about that", you need to dig a little deeper. He could well have been thinking about it... Thinking 'phew, got away with that one'.
It also saves you horrific budget salvaging later.
But with a swappable shift not being swappable and only having "thought about" something as easy as sitting down with a box of scrabble.. Nah. Some men honestly do think that if they ignore it long enough we will just learn to deal. They honestly believe they are that indespensible that we would give up anything to keep them. Got tickets on themselves bad.
Oh Elissa ... i for one kinda know YOU gave every ounce that you had left in to you to make the relationship work, no unturned stones with you ... YOU did everything humanly possible ... For that YOU can always stand tall & PROUD
We know you did it for Arch foremost then yourself a close second, what devoted Mother wouldn't !!
If Archie ever needs to know a bit about what you tried to do to help 'things' YOU can count on alot of women here on this website that have taken an interest in a BEAUTIFUL MOTHER'S (that's you ELISSA) journey in trying to whole heartedly DO just that
Your on a 'better' journey now ... and we are ALL here to do what we can if you ever need help along the way ok !!
Hugs to you from Lorelle (and i still plan on catching up with you one day ) xoxox
I dont know the situation nor do I need to but I would like to congratulate you on standing up for yourself and putting your foot down once and for all us male so need a good slap in the face and a good kick up the bum at times.
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lulu - thats freakin hilarious, gosh you always manage to give me a good belly laugh
lorelle - oh you are the sweetest, your post bought me to tears, I definately still plan on catching up with you too dont worry xxxx
mr sqiud - thankyou very much for your support. I gave XH the kick up the bum he needed 7 months ago when i moved out, sadly I didn't kick him hard enough LOL
Oh darling, I've been following your journey from a distance and I am just so happy for you right now Here's to the beginning of your new life.
How exciting!
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happy happy happy so so happy!!!
Here's to the beginning of your new life.
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