I am 95% sure I am about to separate from my husb and am worried about how i am going to cope financially, he earns good money but pretty much hasn't given me any at all during our marriage. I am not sure how i am going to cope financially with 4 children. On one hand i am kind of looking forward to being responsible for my life and finances again but on the other am scared stiff. Of course also scared of being single with 4 girls.

Would love to hear any advice or ideas or stories of how you did it.

Thanks, Trina