HI Marydean

My DH works overseas - 6 weeks over there and 2 weeks back at home....but I am getting there. DD goes to playgroup, gymbaroo, swimming and is in child care on a Friday (to keep me sane). Get involved in what you can in your area and you will develop a routine and the days will fly by. I too have no family here and yesterday had gastro, it wasn't a great day, trying to look after DD and myself but I got there. The idea about hiring a teenager for a few hours is great, you can be around in the house but doing other things while your daughter is being watched as it is pretty intense being the sole carer. I also make sure DD has a sleep in the day (whether she goes to sleep or not she has quiet time in her cot) and goes to bed at 7.30/8 pm so I have some time in the evenings to myself.

Laurin