First of all i just want to say how beautiful you are Smiles seriously its a pretty special and beautiful thing your doing.

Sounds like your friend really is doing it tough and it will do her the world of good to have this break it might make all the difference, maybe just say to her "We would love to watch the girls for the night etc, its hard to know what to say because i don't know her personally but maybe ensuring her how much u would love to watch them might make her feel at ease and guilty if you know what i mean.

XXX