Even if it was just during the day taking them for a few hours so she could do something to relax maybe that might be easier at their age..? say ohh we would to have the girls Miss C would love the company etc
... thanks heaps BC for the suggestion but i know this is gonna sound unbelievable but her twins would seriously be even too much of a hand full on my own to look after as they are physically violent with each other, like watching a couple of wild animals and they can take it out on my DD too so i know i would need DP there with me (she & i don't have a common friend i could call on to help either) ... and i secretly would love for her to met someone, not saying this is why i would love for her to go out but i thought it might give her something to think about if she was out having a nice night. I feel she needs some opposite attraction attention as her EX always made her feel unattractive (telling her she has a jelly belly in disgust, OMG she had two babies in there for shiat sake and she looks awesome so i think he is just a cruel human being and she needs to be reassured that she is attractive inside & out !!)