So true miss_tree ... i lived on my own for about 7years before i met my DP & became a Mum ... & yeh the nights were the hardest part of the day, i was incredibly lonely even though i had a great career & super friends ... and i remember just getting a phone call at night when home made such a world of difference

Yes, i'm certainly going to visit with her at her home & meet up at places with our children to play (my DD is one year older than her twins) ... she is coming to my DD's birthday party next month & i'm doing what i can to organise that we can transport her & the twins to my place & back ... i'm gonna secretly get some people to help with her twins, like look out for them ... cause i want her to relax & have a good time out

Thanks again for your very kind advice xox