If you get your life in order, and look after yourself, the right person will come along at the right time.

You might not believe in that, but I do.

It's only now (3 years on) that I actually feel like I could spare some time for a relationship. But not for the next few months as I'm renovating! So maybe at the end of the year I'll start looking... perhaps join a few common-interest groups (religion, sports, hobby) or something like that.

Good luck!