thanks so much guys x i know when i am at my lowest I can always count on all of you to get me through.
I guess what makes me more angry is that the friend XH is drinking with, is my Uncle!
PLUS, there are all these birthday messages on facebook for XH from my family and friends, I mean sure say happy birthday, be gees, dont gush to him about what a fabulous guy he is!
Why is it that we as mothers put our children 1st ALL THE TIME but males feel the need to be LOSERS!!!
My ex is the same... I have not seen any child support from him for about a month, but at our's sons first birthday party he was an hour late as he got stuck in traffic coming back from the snow with his girlfriend. and was in a bad mood the whole time as he was tired.. great way to put your son first .... oh and didn't bother bringing anything to the party AND from the second I was pregnant he said how for Matty's 1st birthday he would get him the BIGGEST tonka truck he could find..... well he ended up getting him the most pathetic truck which is for a 6 month old... and i overheard him saying "yeah i was gonna get this cool one but it was $50 and way over my budget" ARE YOU SERIOUS...... I had to save for a month for the party and his presents and I don't have a job...
they are amazingly selfish! So Matty's dad could afford to have a holiday at the snow with his girlfriend but couldnt aford $50 for his sons birthday present?? Sounds so darn familiar!
was chatting to my Aunty who was with XH on the weekend, she says to me "dont be too hard on him, had the weekend off anyway cause he had tickets to take you to the Jimmy Barnes concert, but then you left him". I dont believe that for a second! I know he didnt have the weekend off for a start, and why would you buy tickets then not tell me when it was his last chance at saving the mariage??!! Am really angry at my Aunt for taking his side too, but I know what she is like, she loves creating drama for others.
So yesterday I was SO down in the dumps about everything.
But today is a new day and I am having a happy one. XH is in New Zealand living it up, hasn't called DS all week or asked me how he is or anything, typical. I just wish he would have the balls to stand up to me and have an arguement so i can get some of this emotion out on him, instead of him walking away and ignoring everything
I dont understand fathers who dont want to know how their kids are...
XP hasnt seen Matty since his bday on 2 August, and i havent heard from him for about a week, i feel like writing "oh by the way your son is doing great incase you want to know or give a crap" but no... why should i waste 15c on a text message to him
I'm a bit slow off the mark to respond to this one! But in a way I know how you feel. It sucks when you give so much of yourself to someone and put in so much effort and they let you down without seeming to care.
It's hard to comprehend their behavior, and whilst we are rational, intelligent women and know we deserve better, it still hurts. How can they act that way when they were supposed to love us forever.
Hope that makes sense and I haven't made it worse for you. Just that I think we're in a similar boat and it's a cr@ppy boat to be in! Good people should never have to feel these feelings. We deserve love and happiness and it's coming girl don't worry. After this storm there will be a rainbow.
your mum is right I reckon. For what its worth my XH is miserable without me, whilst it makes me feel guilty, it also makes me feel a bit good like Im not the only one going through such a hard time atm
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