Hun - it sounds like you need a day off - even if you do manage to geti n to work I doubt you will be focused. They would find it very hard to fire you under such circumstances - they have a duty of care toward you and they do have to put your best interests into perspection.

I know how hard it is to get through situations like this - my little girl was 3 when her father and I broke up. You have to understand that your little one is a part of you, you are amazing, and any future man that comes along with most likely be in awe of the amazing package he is getting. Do not be worried about finding someone else - most of us find someone so much more wonderful than the father of our children!

Sending you lots of strength hun - can you take the rest of hte week of as stress leave? You need to get yourself sorted - you can't do that at work.

Big hugs babe - welcome to the first day of the rest of your life