thread: I don't know what to do

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  1. #1
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    Nov 2006
    Somewhere Over The Rainbow
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    Hun - it sounds like you need a day off - even if you do manage to geti n to work I doubt you will be focused. They would find it very hard to fire you under such circumstances - they have a duty of care toward you and they do have to put your best interests into perspection.

    I know how hard it is to get through situations like this - my little girl was 3 when her father and I broke up. You have to understand that your little one is a part of you, you are amazing, and any future man that comes along with most likely be in awe of the amazing package he is getting. Do not be worried about finding someone else - most of us find someone so much more wonderful than the father of our children!

    Sending you lots of strength hun - can you take the rest of hte week of as stress leave? You need to get yourself sorted - you can't do that at work.

    Big hugs babe - welcome to the first day of the rest of your life

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2005
    Limestone Coast, SA
    2,671

    oh honey, huge hugs

    First thing do i reckon, is stop stressing about work. The most important thing right now is youa nd Aiden, and if you are worried about Aiden's Dad taking him then stay hom with Aiden today.

    Secondly, dont think about years down the track, just think about today and tomorrow. If you think too far ahead you will just overwhelm yourself.

    You and Aiden will be okay as long as you have each other, you are a loving mum, and thats all that Aiden needs right now.

    I hope you are feeling better today since the sun came up. Do you have somone you can talk things thorugh with just to get things off your chest and make things seem clearer?

    Just keep telling yourself, it will all work out in the finish, it always does.