I am currently studying distance but next semester I am required to be on campus for certain subjects, this is a nutritionist degree and I am hoping to follow with a masters in dietetics at Deakin. I have an appt with legal aid on Tuesday. My point is, my ex initially gave permission for me to leave if I settled for a minute amount of assets and my lawyer said he refused to sign that paper due to it being unfair. Now the assets have been chewed up by legal fees and my ex has revoked permission. I just don't see how my ex can take back permission. I really want to move to Melbs but in all fairness on visitation I am only asking to move halfway. I could care less at this stage about assets, he can keep the lot but I am offering him a fair amount of visitation with a similar amount to what he receives now but there is a 200km distance. It isn't like his family is involved with the kids when they are with me anyway, I have been shut out by the family and most of the towns people after all the stuff he has painted about my past. I used to have a circle of friends but now I am outcast from all but 3.